When you are fat,you don’t love yourself!

Have you ever wondered why most fat people are the funniest, kindest and the most helpful people around? They love cracking jokes (sometimes at their own expense), they love to help people and they are always there for others.

Not to take anything away from them but the truth is most fat people yearned to be loved and accepted by others. Why? Simply because they do not love themselves.

It is sad that our world is designed in a way that fat people mostly hate themselves. They crave for love and acceptance but cannot accept themselves. They do anything to be loved and wanted by people who mostly use them and make fun of them. People who are fat don’t like their own company.

As a fat person, I know how difficult it is to love yourself because everyone seems to be better and more well dressed than you. Even though they may not be as beautiful but people readily except thin people and fat people are ridiculed.

The truth is nobody loves you untill you fall in love with yourself. But then to love yourself enough, you have to accept yourself. Obesity or extra pounds is a form of self loathing. You have to let them go if you really love yourself. Once you love yourself, the world will start loving you!

Published by Shailaza Singh

Shailaza Singh is a writer, former journalist and weight loss coach who writes about health, identity, motherhood, resilience and rebuilding life through honest storytelling. After losing 20 kilos through sustainable lifestyle changes and years of trial and error, she now helps people simplify weight loss using normal Indian food and realistic habits. She lives in Jaipur and writes about transformation—in body, work and life.

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